THE SOUND OF MUSIC
For much of the movie, Captain von Trapp (Christopher Plummer) has treated Maria (Julie Andrews), the novice he has hired to be the governess for his seven children, coldly. The Captain's house has been as cold as his heart since the mother of the children died. Martial rule prevails in a house devoid of music. He treats both Maria and his children as recruits to be ordered.
The Captain eventually realizes how badly he has neglected his children and how, through the magical powers of music, Maria offers his family real hope. His apology to Maria is short but direct. Notice how he refuses to let Maria take any responsibility.
CAPTAIN: Fraulein . . . I behaved badly, I apologize.
MARIA: No I'm . . I'm far too outspoken, it's one of my worst faults.
CAPTAIN: You were right, I don't know my children.
MARIA: There's still time, captain, they want so much to be close to you.
CAPTAIN: And you've brought music back into the house, I'd forgotten
Fraulein . . I want you to stay . . I . . . uh . . . ask you to stay
A new sense of humility is revealed when Captain von Trapp corrects himself in his desire that Maria not leave. No longer is he issuing orders as a superior but making requests as a peer. Such is the humbling power of apology.
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